The bi-annual International Conference of Philosophical Practice (ICPP) took place in Zagreb, Croatia, 12-14 June 2025. Kajsa Folkesson and Miriam van der Valk presented a short session on the topic

What to do with “difficult” people? A psychologist and a philosopher put their heads together

Abstract:

A psychologist and a philosopher (both rather difficult people) meet to explore “difficult” colleagues, friends and family. The audience is invited to an exploratory odyssey of intra- and interpersonal relating.

Psychology helps to map the typological, normative and pathological perspectives on the relating self; from neurodiversity to diagnostic personality disorders. We combine literature and research with practical experiences from the therapy room. An evidence-based dialectical model – balancing acceptance with change – guides us towards an ethic of togetherness and wisdom.

Philosophy helps to show gates for forays into meaning-making and a renewed way of life. Like J-P Sartre said; “A lucid view of the darkest situation is already, in itself, an act of optimism /…/ it implies that the situation is thinkable.” From here, we can flourish.

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